Staff Reports
The British Royal Family is once again draped in sorrow, as they mourn the recent passing of Virginia Ogilvy, the Countess of Airlie. This American-born lady served not just as a member of the Queen’s inner circle but was also a close friend and confidante of Queen Elizabeth II for an impressive fifty years. Ogilvy kicked the bucket at her Cortachy estate at the ripe old age of 91, leaving behind a legacy as vibrant as a Fourth of July celebration in her home state of Rhode Island.
Virginia Ogilvy was born Virginia Fortune Ryan in 1933 to two wealthy families, which probably didn’t hurt her chances of snagging a spot in the royal entourage. In 1952, she married Lord David Ogilvy, a childhood friend of the Queen who later became the Earl of Airlie. From then on, it was all tea and crumpets for the couple as they quickly integrated into the royal social scene. By 1973, Ogilvy was appointed Lady of the Bedchamber, a title that sounds fancy enough to require a tiara and a royal decree.
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Throughout her time in this distinguished position, Ogilvy was often seen hovering near the Queen during ceremonies and royal functions. She even made her way across the pond on several occasions, ensuring that the Queen was never out of touch with her American roots. One can only imagine the delightful conversations they shared about life across the Atlantic, with Ogilvy undoubtedly providing the Queen with insights only an American could. Meanwhile, Lord Ogilvy was no slouch either, holding down the fort as Lord Chamberlain and managing the royal household like a seasoned pro.
The Ogilvys were well-loved in their community, having spent many years at Cortachy Castle, which proudly boasts its heritage dating all the way back to the 15th Century. It’s comforting to think that while the contemporary world spins out of control, the Ogilvys were steadfast in their dedication to serving both the local community and the crown. They eventually swapped the castle for a smaller estate and later London, but their sense of duty never waned. Perhaps they were giving the royal family a run for their money in the service department.
Following Queen Elizabeth II’s death, King Charles III showcased his gratitude for Lady Airlie’s years of loyal service by keeping her position intact, a rare gesture in the winds of change sweeping the monarchy. When Lady Airlie passed, the King mourned deeply, recalling the tidal wave of devotion she showed during her time with the late Queen. In recognition of her unwavering service, Ogilvy received the title of Commander of the Royal Victorian Order in 1983, later elevating her status to Dame Commander in 1995.
Lady Airlie’s devotion, community reputation, and royal connections will likely linger long past her physical presence. She made quite the impression during royal gatherings, often sporting the iconic Airlie Tiara—an accessory with more history than many politicians. With six children, 14 grandchildren, and eight great-grandchildren left behind, the legacy of Lady Ogilvy will persist, a powerful reminder of the enduring bond between an American lady and the British monarchy. As the royal family navigates this latest loss, it’s clear that the ripple effects of a life well-lived can be felt far and wide, even across oceans.
